Getting to Know People
I was homeschooled. For the majority of my life, I had few friends and most of them lived 45+ minutes drive away. The internet aided these relationships without a doubt. I talk to my best friend over the pandemic more often than I did before. I was able to communicate and coordinate with people from the local high school despite never attending there. These are examples of online and in-person contact working hand-in-hand to present the best possible outcome, but let's look examine my in-person and online interactions that don't have as much overlap. Something I dislike about the critiques of technology is how much they aggrandize in-person conversations as if they all were inherently valuable. I have conversations with people all the time, and I’ve discovered that it's very easy to find people boring. Extracting value from social interactions requires skill. You have to know what questions to ask, you have to probe, to get to the heart of their interests. At my current ski...